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July
09th 2011
Dear
helpline,
It’s
been like three years or so, since my first
real girlfriend and I broke up! I really liked
her, but took her for granted, and because
of that she broke up with me! Now all I want
to do is talk to her, but I can't get through,
and I don’t like asking for advice,
but I need your help please!!
Tremaine
Dear
Tremaine,
Ever
heard the saying you never realised you had
a good thing till it’s gone? Well apparently
that’s what happened to you. There is
no guarantee that your ex will take you back
and to be honest the possibility is very thin;
highly unlikely. You stated that you took
her for granted so you obviously need to blame
your self. However, you are only human and
like everyone else, you make mistakes. It’s
been three years like you said and in that
period of time, lots could happen. Possibility
exists that she has moved on, or that she
hasn’t. Make an extra effort to do thoughtful
gestures that would suggest just how much
you are interested. Instead of calling her
every minute of the day, try sending the delivery
boy with a bouquet of roses, candy (chocolate
preferably) and a card with a sad face that’s
absolutely irresistible. You can try writing
her something that’s from your heart,
don’t plagiarize; let it be straight
from the heart. There are so many little things
that you can do that will absolutely melt
her heart, you just need to get your thinking
cap on. However as mentioned previously, she
may not accept you back as she may be adamant
about her decision. If she has moved on, then
so should you; it’s no use crying over
spilt milk, if she is firm about her decision
making about moving on, you won’t get
her to change her mind. Time heals pain; that
is something that is more than 75% guaranteed.
There will always be someone else that will
love you, if you give them the chance and
someone whom you will love back the same way.
Don’t wait for her forever, because
forever will not wait for you. If she rejects
you, keep your head high, and move on, you
will be okay!
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