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September
03rd 2011
Dear
Helpline,
I
am in a relationship with this guy for 3 years
and 10 months now, and in the beginning everything
was GREAT, then eventually things started
to go the wrong way and it became really rocky.
It even came to the point where I would get
beaten violently, and then he would want to
make it up to me afterwards. I don't know
what to do and I really still am in love with
this guy and he doesn't even appreciate me
and what I do or have done for him. He accuses
me of cheating and having other guys, when
the truth is I don’t. Please give me
some advice because I really need it.
Confused
Heart
Confused
Heart
There
are many people like you who go through this
situation but you need to take a stand. It
is obvious that this guy does not respect
you and he is very insecure and if you don’t
leave this relationship very soon, you will
be in for the worst. A lot of relationships
start out great and end up in a shaky situation
after a few months or even weeks sometimes,
but that does not mean that because the two
of you are experiencing problems that he has
any right to hit you! You stated that you
love him but, does he even love you? A guy
who respects you and women on the whole will
never even contemplate doing such! It is obvious
he has no morals, standards or values and
as harsh as it may sound, this guy does not
appear to love you. If you stay in this relationship,
you will end up getting beaten all your life,
and very soon you might be disfigured. If
you don’t leave this relationship soon
enough, and you end up disfigured, a lot of
guys may reject you because of your outside
appearance.
You are a human being and you deserve to be
loved, you deserve much better. You need to
leave this relationship, get out before you
end up being sorry. This has nothing to do
with love; you are doing this for your own
good. You may not want to involve the police
in this, as a lot of people in your situation
are fearful to do so, but seek help from a
counselor or, talk it out with a really close
friend, one that you can trust, or someone
who went through the same situation as you.
You may be embarrassed but getting it off
your chest helps. There are guys who will
love you for who you are and though you may
face challenges they will never even come
close to hitting you or think of such; if
they do get too angry, guys with respect will
probably leave the house to cool off and then
come back or do some thing of that nature.
The best thing is to leave, or else you will
regret deeply if you don’t do so.
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