in love with someone who is eleven years older
than I am and everybody says that he is too
old for me but I am deeply in love with him.
He doesn't know that I am attending school.
He loves me too but doesn't act like it. My
parents want me to have a boyfriend but they
don't know I am in love with somebody older
than me. I am scared of telling him I love
him and also scared about telling my parents
who I love.
of all you stated you go to school, but you
never stated your age. Secondly, is this guy
even aware of your age? And yes what everyone
is saying is right. This guy is 11 years older
than you are and you still attend school.
You don’t love this guy, you may say
people don’t understand the way you
feel, but you’re young and naïve.
You probably love what this guy says to you
and what he gives you, but you don’t
love this guy. You also stated that he loves
you but “doesn’t act like it”.
If a guy loves you, he should act like it,
he probably just says that. You are not ready
for that kind of relationship yet. Your family
and friends and most likely everyone else
around you won’t approve this relationship.
If your family does become aware of this situation,
they’ll probably be very upset with
you and things might change a lot. You need
to end this relationship. Always remember
that school should come first. You need to
let this guy know the truth and end this relationship.
If he has no problem with your age, don’t
let him convince you to stay in it. Remember
this is for your own good; you need to end
this relationship. And just so you should
know, if this guy knows that you still attend
school, he will never have anything serious
with you. He most likely has a girlfriend
and is using you. Whether or not he has one,
this is exactly what he is doing, using you.