January 14th 2012

Dear Help line,

I am seeking some help. I am a 19 year old male and there is this girl who is not to far behind me. We've known each other for 5years now. Here's the thing we both are in love with each other but yet still we are not together. WHAT are we doing wrong that we cannot be together? We really want to make things work out. Please help..

Anonymous

Dear Anonymous

You stated that your sex is male. Usually, girls expect guys to make the first move. You say that you both like each other right? Then there is no problem. Some girls are not as brave as others. In fact a lot of girls don’t make the first move. They’re actually waiting on you. If you like her, the best advice is to ask her out and be one of the good guys and not one of the “typical” guys out there. Always remember to be yourself. If your confidence level is on a low and you’re not so bold, muster up the courage and ask her out. Confidence is very attractive. It’s great that the feeling is mutual. Hope everything works out for you. And always remember to take time to get to know the individual, and don’t rush anything, especially if she’s still in school.

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